So many of us like to assume a rigid stance and “dig in our heels” to fight for our point of view, and prove how “right” we are (often about some pretty stupid stuff).
The cost of needing to be right is hurting, harassing or humiliating the ones we claim to love the most.
Over the years, I have finally learned to manage my mindand my mouth.
I’ve learned that most of the time it’s not necessary to “correct” anyone on what I think is right or wrong unless it’s really pertinent to someone’s well-being.
Now, when I am smart enough to “catch” myself, and I am about to blurt out something in order to be “right,” I slap some imaginary masking tape over my mouth and choose love instead.
Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,
Arielle
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I love this! For example, I had this experience when my first kitty died a few years back. I used to cringe at cleaning up the litter box every morning. And then, one day, she was gone. Suddenly, there was nothing to clean, no food bowls to refill, no Emma. And in the moment it hit me what a blessing those things were (and I took them for granted or found myself annoyed w/ them). Ordinary moments? No such thing.